Whether you are an escort or a client, one of your biggest assets is going to be your intuition. This business carries alot of danger for both parties and the ability to tune into and trust your gut could be the difference between staying safe and being in danger and/or possibly getting arrested or killed. Your intuition can also protect you against seeing the wrong provider or booking the wrong client.
I have been visiting a spiritual healer so I can heal myself more and open up my intuition even more since it is a valuable asset to have. I really need to slow down and meditate though to really get more centered since our intuition speaks to us in the silence and not the doing. This is why I like to take sea salt baths, get massages, lay down and rest or just do nothing. It helps me to hear the voice of my intuition better.
It is interesting how I got this email from a very good client of mine and it reminds me of a similar situation that I thought I would share with all of you. This is what he said in his email.
Hi Stephania,
I responded back to him:
Hi Jim,
I am so sorry you are having such a difficult time. Obviously since you are still healing the last thing you need is lots of extra stress. If I were you I would move on because it sounds like either she is busy or you won’t have a good time and won’t connect with her.
Honestly, It seems like the universe is putting up roadblocks and trying to guide you to someone else for this massage so I would move on to someone else. Also I am sure your gut is telling you to move on as well. I mean 1 rescheduling sometimes happens, but it sounds to me like this is being repeated a lot and is a bad sign. I have already asked my good friend ashley for a good fbsm she would recommend for you and she has suggested 4 different ladies I think you will be really happy with. I am sending you their links to check them out and I hope you find one who works out really well for you.
Jim, let me tell you one of my stories of how the universe interceded on my behalf and how doors similar to what you are going thru closed and it was for my highest good
A guy named Dan contacted me over a month ago and gave me a reference to verify him. When I emailed her, she gave me a warning about him and told me to watch out that he was a cop. Ok obviously if you tell an escort that someone is or may be a cop, she will not touch you with a 10 foot pole lol. I immediately emailed Dan and told him something came up and I was not able to see him as a client.
Well he must have thought that was weird because the next day I woke up to 15 messages. Several were from the provider telling me Dan was ok and not a cop and that she had a stalker after her and his name was also Dan – wtf? I mean if I had someone stalking me you can bet your sweet ass I would have their entire name and everything etched into my mind and I would NOT be mixing my guys up lol.
The other emails were from Dan wanting reassurance that everything was ok. He even forwarded the emails he had sent to the provider. I opted out of this because even if Dan was not a cop, there was too much drama in this situation and also it was super weird to be honest.
About a few weeks later I get an email from a guy who said, ” Hey Stephania I would love to see you for 3 hrs this thurs and here are a couple of references to verify me.” He did give me the name of a well know escort and someone else I had never heard of. What is interesting is I was able to confirm thru this provider that Nurulover2 had given her a fake review on TER but had done the same to me. Nurulover2 claims in his review of me that I could not DT his long thick cock. Lol of course not because we never met! And btw If he is so big and thick, his username should be tripod 2 lmao!
No but seriously, I used to be in porn and DT’d some very big guys so I laughed at his fake ass review. I take A LOT of pride in my DT skills and I don’t like it when someone claims I could not DT them esp when I never even met them. You know what I find is interesting is that this guy as well as the bad review by matthewgp (where we had a bad connection), in both instances they both claim I could not deepthroat them. I hate it when people hit below the belt like that and lie and manipulate things to make themselves look better and the other person look bad. Esp when there is no way on TER for providers to defend fake reviews or reviews that contain untruths and give their side of the story. So thank I have a website where my voice can be heard and I can explain things and give my side of the story so there is more fairness in the situation.
So anyway, I was on my computer late at night when all of a sudden I said to myself, “omg that is the same guy!” I went into my email file and sure enough it was the same email and same guy! Now, what I thought was super weird is: why didn’t Dan tell me in the email he had contacted me a few weeks ago and got turned away because his provider mistakenly told me he was a cop? This is a red flag to me and I am starting to wonder about Dan and whether or not I should see him.
I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and contacted his 2 references. When I contacted both ladies, one of them said he was crude and unrefined (whatever that means lol) and the other well known escort said he was great. I am thinking that maybe Dan is ok to see but unfortunately I am very booked up with clients and things to do in my life so I can’t see him at the moment.
So Dan emails me every couple of days but has bad timing because every time he contacts me I am either booked with a client or I have something going on in my life that is blocking me from seeing him. One day a guy named Jason contacted me and booked me for 2 hrs for a friday. Ok now I am romantically attracted to a guy named Jason and he is a good friend of mine for 3 yrs and we have been talking about dating now and this is a guy I could definitely marry in the future. He is a soulmate of mine and we have an amazing connection. So of course I had a very good feeling about a guy named Jason lol. He also verified with a past provider and everything was set for friday. Jason even reconfirmed at 3 am a few hours before he was supposed to come over to see me at 2pm that afternoon.
In the morning I wake up to an email from Dan wanting to know if I was available that afternoon. I told him sorry I was seeing a client and could not see him. About 1/2 before Jason was supposed to show up I did not get a text or email telling me he is on the way (I have all clients email or text me when they are coming to me to reconfirm their eta). I email him to find out if he is on the way and it bounces back to me. So I recheck the email I am sending and it is the same email address I sent him at 3am a few hours ago that he answered. So I email again and again it comes back. I am thinking, “ok obviously Jason is probably going to be a no-show.” Sure enough he does not show up at 2pm but I can’t be mad at him because his name is Jason lol.
I email Dan to let him know what happened and would he still like to come over. Several hours later I get an email from him. “Shoot Stephania but for some reason your email wound up in my spam box and now it is too late for me to come over.”
Ok now every email I have sent Dan never wound up in his spam box – except for the one telling him to come over. I really do believe looking back on this that Jason was sent in to protect me from Dan. Obviously I would want a man I am romantically attracted to to protect me in a time of danger or if I should not see someone so it is really interesting how a guy named Jason was sent in to protect me from Dan. I just think this is interesting and everyone I have told this story to does agree that for whatever reason the Universe did not want me to meet Dan for some reason. Who knows what his intention really was.
This is a very dangerous business. You are exposed to the possibility of a wide range of dangers and I do believe that men can manipulate verification to allow themselves into your life and fly under the radar like Dan (and several other men I have been blocked from seeing).
Anyway Dan must have also realized he was being blocked from seeing me because he has unsubscribed from my mailing list and I have not heard from him and it has been 2 months now lol.
Jim, I believe that everything happens for a reason and since you are a widow, who knows, you could meet the love of your life by seeing another massage girl who turns out to be your soulmate. I would go with the flow and check out the 4 new ladies my friend Ashley is recommending and see if you like one of them and I will be happy to verify you again.
Keep in touch and let me know what happens and I am looking forward to our next rendezvous when you are better. Too bad I don’t do fbsm or I would be happy to give you a massage but honestly I would much rather deepthroat! lol
Stephania xoxo
So the moral of the story is you always need to listen to your intuition in this business to be safe. In this escort business where you are meeting men off the internet, in addition to verifying them, I also tune into my intuition before I meet somebody. You can do all the verification you want, but the guy could still be dangerous. Case in point, I just read a story of an escort warning other ladies that she saw a guy who she verified with other providers. After the date he tasered her and stole back the donation and her phone. I mean this guy was verified and he could have ended up killing her. Just because a guy is whitelisted or is on p411, does not mean he is still safe to see. I also advise all of you gentlemen to do the same when seeing an escort and then pay attention to your intuition. If if does not feel right then don’t see the person and be safe. You intuition is there to protect you and guide you.
