WHAT YOU SHOULD NEVER TALK TO ME ABOUT IN YOUR EMAILS, TEXTS OR CALLS

I get lots of emails everyday and for the most part many gentlemen keep things clean and non-sexual when contacting me.  But the past couple of days I have gotten emails from newbies that clearly do not know what the protocol is when contacting an escort for the first time.  There are times when a man (It is usually always a newbie) crosses a very fine line with me (and every single escort out there) and they start asking questions like this email I just received tonight 

Hi Stephania

So when we can meet up may I ask what you allow during the session? Like swallowing? Mutual shower? Dfk? Multiple releases? Anal?

What is a mutual shower anyway – we pee on each other? lol That would not turn me on.  I have peed on men before during a submissive session, but I do not want any guy peeing on me. 

Or this one I just got today

VS the right type of email to send to me that I received a few days ago.

Hello Stephania,

My name is Steve. I am a 35 year old professional (lawyer).  I’m currently traveling and in the San Francisco area for the next few nights. I am looking for some fun and companionship while in San Francisco. I would like a 2 hr outcall to my 5 star hotel for Tues Dec 15th  (I’d be interested in a time from 8-10pm). I am pretty discreet and private  

I want to make it very clear that when you hire any escort,  including myself, you are paying them for their time and companionship only.  You are not paying for sex or sexual acts of any kind. Which means you should not be asking me what is included in the session or what you will receive for the donation.  

All escorts make it very clear on their websites that the donation is strictly for time and companionship and not for sexual services.  If you try to cross that line and mention sex and money in emails, texts or phone calls or just talk about what activities are included or going to happen in the session – some escorts will immediately discontinue chatting with you as you are now a legal liability for both her and yourself.  

Lawyers are expensive and no escort wants to have to hire a lawyer to go to court to prove she is providing companionship services and not a hooker.  If you have ever been corresponding with an escort and you mention sex or sexual acts in the session, etc., and then she disappears off the face of the earth.  This is why.  I will not disappear but direct all guys from now on mentioning anything sexual to this blog post.  I like to educate people vs just disappearing because then you have no idea what you did wrong and so therefore never correct your behavior and do it again.  

LOL well if you ever get into legal trouble be sure to immediately hire this guy!   https://www.pinterest.com/pin/389279961512643636/  I think what really cracks me up besides the pubic thing is that he looks so serious in his picture.  Like he takes defending the pubics very seriously lol.

This even applies to men who have seen providers before.  I had a guy recently who I verified thru another provider. He was supposed to come over and see me a few days later and then wanted to talk about what would go on during the session sexually.  I immediately told him I do not discuss such things as you are not paying me for sex, but for my time and companionship.  2 days before he was supposed to come over supposedly he got called into work and had to cancel.  

Now I don’t know if he really got called in to work or what the issue was.  All I know is goodbye and good riddance to anyone who would start chatting like that EVEN if you have been verified by another provider.  I don’t care if Jesus has vouched for you.  Just because 2 or 3 different escorts have said you are safe or you are on p411, date check, etc., does not mean we will discuss sex and money ever.  That is off limits no matter what.  So please be aware of this. This means that in no emails, texts, phone calls orsmoke signals should you ask what is included in the date.  Plus some of you are married – do you really want an email trail where you are asking about sex with another woman? I don’t think so.  I always keep everything discreet and private and so should you.

Paying a woman for her time and companionship is not illegal.  But whenever you go on to solicit sex from a woman in exchange for money, that is an illegal act.   Where the line is crossed illegally is when there is a written, auditory or visual (meaning email, phone call or text or in person talking) consent between both parties that said donation is going to pay for said sexual services for that visit.  Also, I am not a hooker anyway and with a hooker there is the explicit consent of exchanging money for sex.  With escorts it is different. 

With that being said, I do however make concessions whenever I am seeing a client on a regular basis.  I do love to sext (esp when I am horny) and I love making a man super hard.  If you are a regular client – you do get lots of perks from me.  Like extra free time, sexting, leaving you dirty voicemails (but only if you want this since I know many of you are married and need discretion). I would love to sext with all of you but there are not enough hours in the day so I have to be selective in who I can do this to so I hope you understand

I like a good connection with a man and someone I will be seeing more than once.  When I was a sugar baby I got a monthly allowance and we had a great connection, fun and yes we had sex.  But he was not paying me for sex – it was part of the arrangement/relationship.  I felt like a lady and not like a hooker.  In the escort business I also want the same thing – although I realize that none of you will be paying me a monthly allowance.  I do have in my donation link that I am open to that type of arrangement again. 

For whatever reason I do get guys asking me if I am a cop.  I am not a cop and I don’t think the police dept would approve of a lady cop putting a deepthroat video on her website or playing with her nipple in a twitter selfie video.  I can imagine the budget report for that expense lol.  No, but seriously, I am not a cop and not connected to law enforcement in any way.  How you can tell someone is a cop is because they will try to get YOU to admit you are paying for sexual services in exchange for money whether on the phone or in person and they also will not verify you.  Some of you gentleman in my opinion are taking a big risk by seeing ladies who do not verify you or you do not verify and make sure they are safe to see.  It could be considered entrapment if they do try to verify you.  When they do a sting, they are not going to verify loads of guys and so the verification process I go thru protects you and I to some extent.

So in conclusion, please keep all emails, texts and phone calls to me non-sexual in nature as it relates to a date with me.  If you want to discuss porn or erotica that is fine because that is totally different.   

This email would be considered totally inappropriate

Hi Stephania

I love your website and would love to get together with you this friday from 1-3.  What is your donation rate and is greek and daty included in the session? I would love to also experience some great deepthroating from you.

Thanks

Brandon

Or this email  which I found particularly funny and is again totally inappropriate

This older gentleman asked in an email what my outcall rates were and told me when he wanted to see me and then in a separate email he asked me:

“Can I penetrate your vagina?”

LMAO!  Vagina? And can you penetrate it? Mother may I? I don’t like that word.  Vagina is something a gynecologist would use and it is too clinical for me.  I prefer the word pussy.  The guy was obviously a newbie and did not know any better.  Again, you do not ask about sex and money ever.  I wouldn’t even do it after the date to be on the safe side. 

Btw: don’t ever ask me if you can penetrate my vagina or you will make me laugh so hard and totally turn off my sex drive.  I am used to porn and it turns me on more to hear,”I want fuck your pussy.” Older guys for some reason use the word vagina. I never hear the word vagina in a porn and if I did I would turn it off immediately.  That word for some reason turns off my sex drive. I don’t know why.